Behind the Scenes of a Boudoir Session: What Really Happens (Spoiler: It’s All About You)

Ever wondered what actually happens during a boudoir shoot? Spoiler alert: it’s not nearly as intimidating as it sounds. In fact, it might be the most empowering thing you do this year.

Let me walk you through exactly what goes on inside my private boudoir studio in Eastbourne, East Sussex.

Pre-Session Prep

Before your session even starts, we have a relaxed chat—either in person or over the phone. We talk about your comfort level, what outfits you might bring, your reasons for booking, and the vibe you want from your photos. Whether you want something soft and romantic or bold and unapologetic, we’ll make it happen.

And yes, it’s 100% normal to feel nervous. Most women do! That’s why everything is set up to make you feel at ease from the moment you walk in.

Arrival & Getting Ready

When you arrive at my cosy, private studio in Eastbourne, the space is all yours. This is not a high-turnover commercial space with people coming and going. It’s calm, private, and designed to help you feel relaxed and safe.

We offer professional hair and makeup (if you’d like it), so you can enjoy some pampering before stepping in front of the camera. And while you’re getting glammed up, we go over your outfits, have a laugh, and ease into the session.

The Shoot Itself

During the shoot, I guide you through every single pose. You don’t need to know how to “model” or do anything dramatic. I’ll show you how to stand, where to look, what to do with your hands—all of it.

We laugh, we hype you up. Every single step is tailored to make you feel confident and comfortable. There’s no pressure, just a celebration of you.

The Gallery Reveal

A few days after your session, we sit down to go through your gallery together. I hold my breath every time—because this is the moment you see yourself differently. Stronger. Softer. Sexier. More you.

Clients often tell me this is the most emotional part. You see yourself through someone else’s eyes—and it’s powerful.

If you’ve been thinking about booking a boudoir shoot in East Sussex, but haven’t taken the leap yet, this is your sign. You deserve to experience this.

Ready to experience a boudoir shoot that’s unapologetically you? At Boudoir with Personality, I create empowering, confidence-boosting photography sessions tailored to your style, story, and spirit. Whether you're celebrating a milestone, reclaiming your body, or just want to feel damn good in your skin, I’m here to capture it all—beautifully and authentically. My private studio is based in Polegate, near Eastbourne, East Sussex. I offer professional boudoir and portrait photography for women of all ages, shapes, and sizes. Let’s create images you’ll love and never forget.

Book your personalised boudoir session today and take the first step towards showing up as your boldest, most confident self.